How many guys would you say you meet in an average week? And not just seeing them, but genuinely having a conversation and interacting with them. If you said ‘One’ or ‘none’ then how long do you think it’s going to take till you find a decent guy? We all get led to believe that someday it will just ‘happen’. You’ve just got to be proactive. You’re going to have to go out there and find him. You just have to go out there and meet more guys, and filter out the good from the bad :) Just ask yourself whether you’re creating or waiting? It took me a long time to realise that difference.
And just focus on being a high value woman! Someone that has an opinion and has her own life and then once you love yourself in that way, that decent guy will see all those qualities in you too.
I hope that was of some help. I’m no expert. From every mistake and wrong turn you learn and grow from each and every one of them :)